5 TIPS FOR RIOTOUS SEX

Vincent Acerbi


Finding and exploring new ways to satisfy both you and your partner can be essential in making a relationship last. Players tend to tire fast because they enjoy the variation of having multiple sex partners without commitment. But wouldn't it be worthwhile to have great sex all the time with the one you love? Here are five things you can do to set the bedroom (or the library reading room) on fire:

1. The Vulgarity Factor

If you've been in a relationship for a few months and feel comfortable in bed with your partner, it may be time to try out a little linguistic debauchery. Don't be fooled by her veneer of gentility - there's a good chance that your girl likes naughty talk just as much as you do.

For the first time it may be helpful (and potentially less embarrassing) to approach dirty talk with your partner on the sly. Try describing what you like as it's taking place, avoid doctor lingo, and make use of phonetics. Words that contain the hard k sound tend to produce powerful results.

You'll be able to tell by her reaction what words or phrases turn her on (whispers, moaning, exclamatory shrieks) and what words or phrases fall short of the mark (awkward silences, snickering, or even gasps). Be sure that what you say doesn't degrade a woman in any way or you'll probably find yourself out in the cold or worse - locked out of her apartment with nothing to wear but your own two hands.

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